foxchildren replied to your post: Luckily, there’s a solution: I just tucked the…

packy? harness? you gotta fill me in :-/ sorry honey

Haha, my boxers are a strap-on harness from Rodeoh. A packy is a prosthetic flaccid dick.

Luckily, there’s a solution: I just tucked the whole packy into the harness instead of letting the shaft hang out. (Taken with instagram)

Rodeoh harness testing day 1: It looks like I have a boner in these shorts. It seems like my packer fits a little awkwardly in the harness. (Taken with instagram)

Discussing my plans for my trans* 101 workshop at the youth LGBT center.

Who doesn’t plan workshops in crayon? (Taken with instagram)

I just got my Rodeoh packer harness in the mail! These boxers are so comfy and they make my butt look great.

uncutfanmexico asked: DO YOU LIKE BOYS OR GILRS?

Sometimes one or the other. Sometimes both. Sometimes neither. Sometimes one, both, neither and then some.

xanderbander92 asked: Ira, if this question makes you too uncomfortable, you don't have to answer it. I'm genderqueer and at a point where I've started to physically transition, but half of my family are not supportive. I find myself holding back for them, hoping they'll come around, but it seems like they're willing to just cut me off if I do any more. I can't hold myself back too much anymore, it hurts too much. Should I still try to salvage my family ties?

Of course, keeping your family is ideal, but do you have a family if you don’t have you? One cannot be sacrificed for their family. Sometimes it takes losing someone for our loved ones to come around.

Outfit of the day. I’m headed to an interview to see if I can transfer to a different location for my work since I’m trying to move to central Phoenix. I won’t wear the sweater since it’s hot but I really like it. (Taken with instagram)

Discussing cissexism and transmisogyny in the world of dating.